In a world where “love” is often reduced to warm feelings and polite silence, we need a serious reset on what love actually looks like—especially for those of us trying to walk the Jesus way.
It’s become trendy to define love as agreement. Or at the very least, as never disagreeing. We’ve been sold the idea that to truly love someone means we must never confront, challenge, or correct them. But that’s not love—that’s fear wearing a polite smile.
Real love, godly love, is far more courageous.
Let’s be clear: love is not about control. It’s not about shouting others into submission or demanding uniformity. But neither is it about indifference masked as “live and let live.” Love isn’t passive. Love leans in. Love risks the hard conversation. Love speaks the truth—even when it’s costly.
